flowplayer start / stop on loading external source - external

Question

I have a video shown in flowplayer from an external provider and I only have this few lines to embed the vidoe to ma page:
<script src="http://domain.com/live/js/jquery.min.js"></script>
<script src="http://domain.com/live/js/flowplayer.min.js"></script>
<script src="http://domain.com/live/js/flowplayer.playlist.min.js"></script>
<script src="http://domain.com/live/js/mi/vod.de.php?id=10857"></script>
The player starts right when the page is loaded.
This is the div for the player:
<div id="panes">
<a id="player" style="display:block;width:624px;height:344px;"></a>
</div>
How can I stop, pause and play the video manually?
How can I find out how I can "talk" to the player in order to stop/play the video?
I tried:
$f('player', '??', {
But how do I know the path to the swf file?
Please help!
Thanks in advance!!!

Answer 1

You have to use last version of the Flowplayer.
Use this format to start Flowplayer
( Some discussion u can find here https://github.com/flowplayer/flowplayer/issues/19 )
$(document).ready(function () {
try {
flowplayer().load([{ mp4: "http://stream.flowplayer.org/bauhaus/624x260.mp4" }]);
} catch (e) {
alert(e.message);
}
});